Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10 NIV Psalm 149:9 tells us that the Lord is the honor of all His saints. Therefore, we honor Him as we honor one another. Both love and honor are born in the heart. As my heart yields to honor, the words of my mouth echo the love in my heart. Other directives linked to the phrase 'one another' include: love one another, prefer one another, receive one another, serve one another, forbear one another, teach one another, forgive one another, comfort one another, edify one another, exhort one another, consider one another, and admonish one another. We are directed NOT to: judge one another, provoke one another, envy one another, devour one another, betray one another, or hate one another. The term 'one another' levels the field to safeguard saints against self importance. We honor people, gifts, positions, commissions, callings, and appointments - and those appointed are subject to the equalizing effects of the 'one another' scriptures to which we all subscribe. 1 Peter 1:22 talks about having unfeigned love for the brethren and Ephesians 4:15 asks me to speak the truth in love. The Holy Spirit connected these verses to show me that until the love in my heart is unfeigned the truth spoken is as offensive as clanging brass - doing more harm than good, more dishonor than honor. If the intent is not pure then the noticeable absence of love becomes a stumbling block. The reproof of truth will cut, not cure. One word of correction from a heart filled with love is sweeter than all the world's flattery. Truth spoken in love prepares a heart for repentance. Kindness is the tone of honor that coaxes a greater expression of Christ from each of us. I want to live agreeable with who I am. If Christ is my life then love is my highest form of self expression. I don’t want to bring correction to others because I think it's what they need. I want to speak truth because 'love' is who I am - with no expectation or demand for any particular reaction, response, or adjustment. I simply want to be myself - submitted and subdued by love - and wholesome enough to leave the results up to Him. I want to speak truth from an empathetic source that genuinely hurts when another hurts...not because the hurting human is offensive or inconvenient. The Lord never leaves nor forsakes. The flesh is present with its sin, rebellion, and carelessness yet it does not cause the Lord break fellowship with me. Grace abounds and mercy triumphs. Goodness is lavished and love continues to take the initiative toward me - the object of His affection. As I practice this same generosity it becomes impossible to withhold forgiveness from another. Others need the same freedom that I need - that we might all attain full stature (Ephesians 4:13). Every person is fighting a great battle. …
